My Journey Through School Applications in the USA

As I navigate through the school application process in the USA, I’ve encountered both ups and downs. Currently, I have applied to 19 schools, and 11 of them have returned results, while 8 are still pending. Among the outcomes, some schools offered direct admission and even scholarships without me applying! I’ve also been placed on a waitlist at others. In March, I will be negotiating scholarship amounts with another school. I shared with a middle school friend years ago that I would decide how much tuition to pay.

The Challenge of Rejections

Recently, I faced rejection from Boston College and was waitlisted at George Washington University. Reflecting on my undergraduate years, I remember being turned down by several institutions without feeling as defeated as I do now. A pivotal moment in my early school years was when I was called to solve a problem in fourth grade but couldn’t manage it. My teacher publicly called me the “dumbest girl in class.” At that time, I reassured myself that it was okay because this teacher frequently reprimanded students. I often reminded myself that at least I wasn’t the “laziest,” as labeled by her.

This experience led to a downward spiral in my math performance. I began to dread math class, fearing confrontation with my teacher, which resulted in my poor grades— my lowest in middle school was 37 out of 120. Ironically, shortly after this episode, the same teacher approached my mother to find a job for her daughter, who was in her twenties. It makes me wonder how many of my future scholarships could outlast her career!

Growing From Adversity

Despite this hardship, I’ve never held a grudge against my teacher. I genuinely wish this incident had never happened; perhaps my math skills would have improved, and my middle school label as a “poor student” would have been avoided. Studying abroad is not solely about grades for me; it stems from a deep yearning for experience and personal growth. Many of my thoughts seem to be lost on my peers back home, and my upbringing was troubling—I faced punishment for simply not having my lamp positioned at the right angle!

Proving the Naysayers Wrong

Previously, someone mocked my lack of a U.S. green card and questioned my undergraduate degree in International Relations, Psychology, and Criminal Justice, asking if I aimed to become a diplomat. While diplomacy is indeed one of my ambitions, I can still earn a living in the U.S. without a green card. I wish her luck finding a reputable school for her needs! Over time, I’ve diligently noted all the derogatory remarks aimed at me. I strive to prove them wrong, and I am becoming stronger—I barely register their opinions anymore.

Encouraging Growth in Children

It’s disheartening to see people quickly celebrate others’ acceptances, taking pleasure in undue criticism. If your child struggles academically, remember: every child is like a seed. Some may blossom with just a sprinkle of water, while others require meticulous care. Yet, eventually, every seed can grow into a towering tree!

Looking Ahead

I’ll share more specific details once the application season concludes. Ever since second grade, I’ve been aware of my desire to study law, and I am grateful for my hard work, which has enabled me to be accepted by such esteemed institutions.

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The journey through school applications is indeed arduous, yet each experience carries its lessons. Stay resilient and remind yourself of your goals; your hard work will surely pay off.