How to Meet Quality Men in the USA: A Guide for Women

Many women often ask me, “Where can I find high-quality, wealthy men?” The term “wealthy men” refers to those who have achieved high incomes through their hard work, such as doctors, lawyers, corporate executives, private equity managers, and business founders. While I don’t feel entirely confident answering this question, my journey through the startup world has allowed me to meet some fabulous women from the upper class. Some have become friends from social activities, while others transitioned from clients to close friends. However, discussions about this topic are usually limited to my inner circle, as it touches on personal and private matters.

Starting the Journey

Let’s rewind to before Covid, back in 2019, when a friend of mine had just gone through a divorce. Feeling apprehensive about re-entering the dating scene, she turned to our friends Ella (who is married to a surgeon) and Gina (the wife of a business owner) for guidance. With a touch of humor, they said, “Don’t worry; we’ve got your back! We’ve been married five times to wealthy men between us.” 😅 They strongly recommended match.com, claiming that all five of their husbands were met through this platform. Ella added that her hairdresser—a woman in her 40s—found local men on match.com and organized weekend group dates in San Francisco, where the male-to-female ratio is heavily skewed in favor of men.

Advice from Ella and Gina

Step 1: Communicate Online

Before meeting in person, spend ample time texting or emailing to gauge mutual interests. Meeting up is time-consuming (averaging 1 to 3 hours, plus travel), while texting takes only minutes. Aim for 1-2 weeks of online conversations to confirm whether a face-to-face meeting is worth your time.

Step 2: The First Meeting

The ideal venue for a first date? A coffee shop! Avoid formal dinners initially. Why? Coffee dates are flexible; you can adjust the meeting duration as needed. If things don’t click, you can end the date without the pressure of a full meal.

Step 3: Observe the Details

If the first date goes well, a second meeting can involve a dinner date. This is a great opportunity to discuss the menu and engage in conversation, revealing the other person’s experiences, tastes, and spending habits. If both parties agree to a third date, the likelihood of developing a medium-term (2-3 months) or long-term (6 months or more) relationship grows significantly.

My Key Takeaways

• Choose the Right Platform: Select a dating site with a clear user base and seriousness.
• Prioritize Online Communication: Texting or emailing first helps assess whether an in-person meeting is worthwhile.
• Select the Right Venue for Dates: Coffee meetings are efficient and adaptable.
• Build Relationships Gradually: Develop trust over time; don’t rush things.

Finding a quality partner requires both strategy and patience. Remain clear about your goals and maintain a sincere attitude— the right person will come along at the right time. I hope this sharing helps those of you who are on the journey of seeking love!

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